Essay - This Paper Presents an Exploration of Adultery and Its Causes....

This paper presents an exploration of adultery *****d its causes. The writer focuses on the empty nest syndrome and brings various points to the ***** about ***** ***** and how it may contribute to the affair. In addition the ***** provides suggestions on ***** ***** avoid empty nest syndrome based adultery.

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In recent years the topic of adultery has moved from hushed whispers behind closed doors to the evening news and presidential inquests. Adultery ***** been splashed on every magazine cover, and discussed on every talk show and is no longer the taboo topic that it used to be. There are many situations that trigger adultery including the empty next syndrome. When children grow up and move away the parents are often left with an almost bottomless pit of loneliness ********** emptiness. Th***** can cause someone to turn ***** outside companionship in an effort to fill that void, ********** ***** result is an extra marital *****. ********** are many reasons that an ***** next leads to an affair *****d there are several things ***** can ***** done to counteract its temptation.

The effects of the empty next ***** are far-reaching and varied but before one can begin to understand its ramifications one first has to ***** what an empty nest syndrome is. Empty ***** ***** is experienced by middle aged p*****nts sometimes when their ***** move out. After almost two decades of daily interaction with children and daily placing the needs of the children above *****ir own, the sudden void that is ***** when the children move out on their own can be a bit overwhelming. In a way the healthy family "self destructs," meaning parents who raise emoti*****ally healthy ***** independent children witness those children go off into the world to find their ***** place and pursue their own *****als ***** desires. This is something ***** children dream and hopes and wait for and parents sometimes dread. When the last box ***** *****d ***** the house is scarily quiet the ***** nest syndrome often *****s. It is a syndrome ch*****racterized by loneliness and ***** feeling of emptiness. Knowing the teen won't come barreling through the door at any moment, knowing the friends are not going to be spending the night *****more, and knowing that nobody will be asking for a twenty to get g*****s be***** they have a date, is something parents joke ***** hating, but when it ends, they often feel sad and let down. Spending ***** single day for two decades considering the ***** of the children, working ***** lives around the children, ***** putting the children's schedules ahead of their own is a ha***** ***** is firmly engrained(Peplau, 1982). S*****pping ***** activities and having the future loom large ***** no need to put children ***** can cause depression ***** sadness for even the most independent ***** parents. Middle age is a time of redefining go*****ls and remembering all ***** ***** that were put aside for the children,